When you
negative : A
fresh young graduate went to his first job interview ; but he was very nervous
and one thought was consistently playing in his mind” If I can’t respond
properly, what’s going to happen…?’ When
he entered the room he felt that
his mind was totally blank and he couldn’t answer any of the questions
properly. Later, he found out that another interviewee was selected for the
position. He felt very frustrated and accused himself
because he knew all the answers, but stumbled. He thought that ``he is good for
nothing “. After that day he stopped going to social events and further more
stopped going to job interviews. He made no social interactions, met none of
his friends and didn’t go to any party because he felt left out since all of his friends had jobs; this made him feel
more insecure. He made him isolated from everything ! After a while he went in
for a counseling session. When he came for the session, it was quite visible
that he was a frustrated person and a loser in life. After a long period of
silence he said, ``People always laugh at me and I hate myself more than
anything in the world !’’ .
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